Better

From Random Moments

Better a patient man than a warrior, a man who controls his temper than one who takes a city. Proverbs 16:32

Memories from the Past

From Random Moments

Sometime last week, while I came down one morning, I found this half-eaten almond fruit. It's been a really long time since I found one - and, there was a time when I used to go scouting for these first thing in the morning!

I was in school, my grandma was still with us and we were in this small town called Palayamkottai. We lived in a huge house with an equally huge garden and, every summer we'd find a bunch of these half-eaten fruits dropped by bats.

I think it was Grandma who introduced me to the nuts - it was a lot of effort to crack the shell - But, we loved the nuts! it became a routine - for me to walk around the garden, looking for these fruits, early in the morning. With that day's find, me and Grandma would sit in our backyard, cracking them up using a stone or a hammer - trying hard not to reduce the nut to a pulp! And, then share the spoils between the two of us! :)

 Great days! And, no, I didn't crack this one - I left it for some kid to find!

Shrinking and Growing

From Random Moments

It's been a long time since I got a pen drive - and, yes, I've seen that really tiny 8gig one too... But, when I decided to buy two and both of them, 16 gig each, turned out to be sooo tiny.... amazing technology, I say!

Time

"Never say that you have no time.
On the whole it is those who are busiest who can make time for yet more,
and those who have more leisure time who refuse to do something when asked.
What we lack is not time, but heart."
- Henri Boulard

Don't Give Up

"Don't give up on love and don't ever settle for less"

A Song and a Kind Word

From San Francisco, 2010

 

We met by chance 5 years ago - it feels like I've known you forever.
To sing and praise was your life. You always brought joy along.
Life is fleeting, you said. But, I thought you'd be around writing songs forever.

You were the irreverent saint I knew.

 

The ship of my life may or may not be sailing on calm and amiable seas. The challenging days of my existence may or may not be bright and promising. Stormy or sunny days, glorious or lonely nights, I maintain an attitude of gratitude. If I insist on being pessimistic, there is always a tomorrow. Today I am blessed. -- Maya Angelou

"Isis death has been a lesson in the shortness of life and the importance of giving each moment the best tail wagging possible. Sometimes we learn the value of unconditional love only when it is gone. Isis died of a heart attack. Isis is in the past and will never be back. We have only one life to live to the fullest every moment."

"...one person has to love first da, if the other likes being loved unconditionally by the person loving him or her, the relationship has hope."

 "Just felt like dropping you a line to tell you that you are precious. "

You always had A song and a kind word.
Rest in peace, my dear friend. You will be missed.

Arul Ta'fxkz Baliah - http://www.tafxkz.info/

Layers

There are so many layers in this country - some we see and others we don't. In fact, I think we all go through a couple of layers - but, there are many more beyond, on either side of the spectrum.

What's it like to spend your day under a flyover watching fancy cars and bikes go by? Would you know the difference from one kind to another? Or, what's it like to never have to get on a bus or the local train - to be escorted everywhere?

 

Sound of Silence

From Lal Bagh, Bangalore

A leaping tongue of bloom the scythe had spared

 

 

From Jan 2009 - Flower show at Lal Bagh

Two Colors

From Jurong Bird Park

When I was beginning to wonder what's going on, someone came by and said "...thanks to you". Thank You, my friend! You didn't know what that meant to me this quiet day.

The Grape Story

I was heading home (the real home in Chennai) last evening. I'd gotten to the railway station at Secunderabad about half hour early and decided to walk around a bit looking for something to take home before I got into the station. I got to this lane full of vendors selling fruits - sapotas, oranges, and a lot of grapes around.

While I was buying this and that without thinking twice, there came a lady asking if she could get some grapes for a couple of Rupees - you know, the fallen ones that are sold cheaper. She was bargaining for them.

Life ain't fair!


Written on April 15, 2011

In my life - A teeny weeny moment

Left work at 7:30pm - and was in the cab heading home. While we were waiting at the exit to get out of our little campus, there was a pretty little sight that lifted up my spirits. You see, I haven't been all that well of late. As I wearily waited for the half hour ride home, hoping we don't get stuck in massive traffic, I saw this nice mango tree we've got in front of our building - a branch full of flowers lit by the floodlight beneath it.... just like a Christmas tree full of stars :)

Peaks

From San Francisco, 2010

They forget they see only the peaks

Dublin

Here's a long due post on my short visit to Dublin. Most of the time was spent at work (and I'll not talk about that here). Instead, here's the world outside work!

To say, "Dublin is a beautiful city" is an understatement - Dublin is colorful, green, beautiful and amazing and much, much more :) One the first day, I went for a walk around the city - from Grand Canal to Grafton and Stephen's Green.

From Dublin, Ireland

The beautiful buildings and the colorful doors

From Dublin, Ireland

And, of course, the spire

From Dublin, Ireland

So, I walked miles and miles along the Grand canal and the Liffey river in beautiful Dublin - Too bad I had just 2 weeks to spend there. I hope I'll see you again, Dublin :)

The other side of Dasara

Dasara - also written as Dussehra - is celebrated with much fanfare in a lot of places. One of them is Mysore - and, for the first time, I decided to travel to a really crowded place.

From Mysore

And, was it crowded?! Good heavens - it was probably one of the most crowded events I've ever been to - people going in every direction all the time and climbing on anything that would give them a good view of the procession!

More than the procession, I found the festive atmosphere, the people and all that was going on around pretty interesting. Needless to say, it was a typical crazily festive day! :)

Even as we walked towards the Mysore Palace, the roads were closed for traffic and there were people everywhere. After getting jostled mightily :( by the crowds, we found our spot by a tonga (horse-drawn cart).

From Mysore

Just looking around, you can see the amazing interest in the procession - much more than I'd anticipated. Much wilder than just passing interest :) People were everywhere - on trees, on pillars and posts, on ornamental entrances and barricades. There wasn't a single structure standing without a man standing on it!

From Mysore

There was a thief who got thrashed, people falling off from the barricades (and getting on them again) all the time, moving here and there, kids on shoulders, cameras held above... all in all, it was great fun.

Where the waves never stop...

From Gokarna V2

Gokarna -- it is one of those places I've been to and would love to go again.

The waves, the relatively clean and quiet beaches, the sunset over the water, the beach, the sea life - it is quite the opposite of a typical Chennai beach! I've seen fishes of kinds (and jelly fishes too). I've seen beautiful stones and rocks - eroded by the sea and wind - leaving beautiful sculptures. I've had yummy food in those shacks where they let you hang around forever - yummy food facing the sea!

What more can I ask for? You could spend days walking around those beaches and find something new each day!

How to reach: Karwar is the nearest town. Any bus to Goa (from Hyderabad or Bangalore) should get you to Karwar. You could also get to Hubli and find your way to Karwar from there.